Free Day



Outer:
            I had a lot of fun today exploring the city in my own way. First, and probably most important, we slept in and had breakfast! Sleeping in gave us some much needed energy to explore. As our group did our e-travel guide about architecture, we decided to go visit the Garden District. We went to one of the main streets called Magazine. I was expecting it to be touristy and full of street music like the French Quarter. However, I was wrong. The streets were full of cars, and the sidewalks did not have crowds of people. It was more laid back and less busy. The sun was shining on our face and the breeze was gone. It was a beautiful afternoon to walk around and enjoy the city. We walked around from shop to shop and just had a relaxing afternoon shopping. 

            I stopped at a coffee shop and knew it would a good one when the smell of coffee hit my nose. This shop was plain and clean. The walls where a light grey with a few shelves on the wall with green succulents. There were mirrors on the wall opposite of the windows to reflect the light and make it bright and airy, much different than dark coffee shops that I am used to back home. I knew it wasn’t a franchise place because there was nothing for sale. Although I have been really enjoying PJ’s coffee during my time here, to me it reminds me of Starbucks. However, this place had a completely different atmosphere. The coffee bar was located in the back of the store, rather than hitting your face when you walk in. This gave it a calming atmosphere. I walked past numerous tables and chairs that were plain white and simple design. As I approached the counter I was met by another reminder that this is nothing like Starbucks. The man behind the counter had long brown hair pulled back in a ponytail, and he was not wearing a uniform. He greeted me as I looked at the menu. Although I typically only get one drink, I still look to see what places had. This shop had the menu written on a chalk board with only about 10 items. To me, this is also a good sign. It makes me think that the place mastered its trade and they were good with it. As I took my first sip, I decided this was the best cup of coffee I have ever had. I sat there for a bit while my friends shopped at the stores that were around the area. I knew this wasn’t a touristy place when people were coming in and out and the man behind the counter knew who they were. Also while I was sitting there I noticed that the music playing in the background was not Jazz. It was actually more soft rock, or music like I would listen to back home. This was the final touch that made this atmosphere feel more like a local shop rather than a touristy destination.   

Inner:
            Starting the day today, I was not convinced that I would learn much. However, I feel that the city spoke to me today through its people. In the Garden District we were able to meet locals. The first person we met was a nice woman at one of the clothing shops we were in. She overheard our conversation and she just jumped right in. She was giving us directions to different places close by that we should check out. Every person we walked by was saying excuse me, or have a good day. Even the homeless people asked for money or change and we said no, they responded with “OK, thank you.” I was comparing this to walking around Peoria. At home, people barely look up when you walk by, let alone actually say hello and make you feel like they want to talk to you.
            The next place we encountered this hospitality was at a surprising place. Being on this trip with my best friends has been the most amazing experience. We have learned so much about each other and thankfully have grown closer rather than apart. Today, we decided to go get best friends tattoos. Again, at the tattoo parlor, I met the most amazing person. Then girl that worked with me helped me place my new tattoo in a great spot. This process was stressful because its going to be on me forever. She was very patient with me which I thought was awesome considering I came in with three other indecisive girls and we were probably really annoying. I really enjoyed the opportunity to sit for a few minutes with someone who lives here and has a different culture than I do. She was so excepting of people and their choices. I found myself wishing there were more people in the world who had her perspective.
            From my experience today, I have learned that I can sometimes be a judgmental person. I have always thought of myself as non-judgmental, but after my experience with the local New Orleans people, I don’t think I give off that perception to those around me. I felt that when people were talking to me today and asking me questions they were really wanting to know what I had to say. They wanted to hear me and learn from what I was saying. Also, they weren’t afraid to give out complements. If I had a nickel for every time someone told me they liked the leggings I was wearing and the glitter I had on my face, I would be rich. There was even one guy that asked for my ring size because he was just going to propose. I’m going to take always that it’s ok to talk to strangers. This is how we learn from each other and build our personalities. I’m glad I had this opportunity and surprised because it’s not what I thought I would learn today.  
    

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